Wednesday, August 31, 2016
We Had A Bad Time (And Why That's Great)
Self Growth
Today's Toastmaster session was different than the rest, today we had a humor contest. One of the contestants, a former stand up comedian, delivered a wonderful set. He had the audience laughing over and over captivating his audience with his every word. However, he did say one thing that really stuck out to me: "Bad times make for really great stories."
The comic, John, was describing a time when he was performing in a tiny tavern where the audience consisted of 7 guys sitting at 2 tables. Everyone else was passed out, playing darts, or flirting with the bartender. So John starts doing his bit, sets up the audience, delivers his punchline...and silence. No a smile, not peep from the 7 guys. He was tanking hard. He looked over his audience, these were not the high society sophisticated type so he made his new joke more low brow, talking about dumb politics. He sets up his audience, delivers his punchline...and silence. One guy smiled... or perhaps he just twitched, it was hard to tell, the room was not well lit. Still no laughter could be heard. He felt he needed bring his comedy even lower, and delivered the most vulgar laced dirty joke he had in his repertoire. A couple of the guys looked surprised, and even looked at each other but still no laughter. This was possibly the toughest crowd he had ever had to perform in front of. There was not even a pity laugh thrown his way. John saunters away feeling absolutely defeated. The next day John went to a concert, and was recognized by one of the 7 guys at the bar. "Hey you're that comedian from the bar, I thought you were pretty good". John replied "Thanks" but in very much a thanks-for-the-charity tone of voice. "I have got a confession for ya, before your routine, I made a bet with my friends that whoever laughs first would have to buy a round for everyone." John could not believe it, the whole reason he was doing so bad and having such a bad time was because there was this bet going on in the back. The whole situation turned out to be a pretty funny story.
The idea that bad times are just good stories is a great concept. For many people we are too afraid to go for what we want because we are afraid we will have a bad time. This often means we will not even attempt that job or career or investment. We do not try because the risk of having a bad time is too overwhelming. Think about all those rags to riches stories that we have heard about and how wonderful they make us feel. If it was simply a story of riches to riches, we would not be very impressed. It is the hard times that help build and define who we are. Those are the stories that we can talk about, where we truly test our metal, and came out on the other end. We can use this tool to get us over what is holding us back. We know that if we succeed, we win; if we fail, then we have a great story.
Monday, August 29, 2016
Anyone Got Bug Spray - Attempts at Coding Java
Self Growth
During the last few days, I have experimented with using Android Studios to design a new app. A customer had recommended using Udacity as a learning vehicle. Everything was so new and the whole process was exciting. I was able to create a simple greeting card and even got a tutorial application to run on my phone. Just Java 1.0 was up and running. I was so excited I shared the fledgling app with my brothers, who were not too impressed. Of course the app at the time was only able to calculate how much it would cost for x number of coffees if each coffee cost $5 but that was not the point, I had created it and it was working and it was wonderful. With a bit more tinkering, I was able to add some more functions then suddenly DOOOM! There was some type of bug in the code and now the app was no longer running. It was hard to distinguish where the bug was located and trying to figure out if I was missing a letter, a command, a definition, a comma or a some other tiny little mark. I tried doing Ctrl+Z to undo the damage but no luck. I searched and dug through forums and webpages for assistance, but what I tried likely broke it even further. At this point not only was my fledgling app no longer functioning, even the program for writing it was down as well. I was devastated. The nuclear option would be the only way, uninstalling then reinstalling the entire system. I will have to start from the ground up, putting back the pieces of Android Studio to it's original glory before I can even hope to get my app going again. I wonder if they called this app Just Java because they knew we would need quite a few coffees to get it going.
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Sunday, August 28, 2016
24 Hours is Not Enough
Self Reflection Sunday
Aug 28, 2016
I am at a cross roads in my life and my career. One of my goals in life is to achieve financial independence, where I can set my own schedules and do as I wish and become the master of my own time and development. I recently came upon an opportunity, a one in a million chance to go for a higher paying job in a potentially better career. This job is with a big company, and the job security and to opportunity to work with other professionals is very tempting. The higher income would mean I can pay down debt faster, potentially investing more money earlier. However this new job would likely require much more time than my current job, likely meaning I will be working even when I am not on site Not having free time would also mean that I will be less likely able to create my income, and to invest in myself. How do I decide whether I should invest in a career working for someone else or invest in myself working for myself. There is no easy answer. The former is prestigious and the increased pay would mean I can get out debt faster. The latter is riskier, more likely to fail, but also has the potential to blossom into something I cannot even imagine and potentially get me to financial independence.
Since my first self reflection, I have began several projects in addition to this blog. I know that being productive with my time is more important than idling by. My current projects include learning HTML to edit this blog, learning java to develop an android app, and learning to invest in real estate. Unfortunately none of these projects have been completed and are all partially done. I will need to revisit these project and complete them, turning them from a dream to something much more tangible. There never appears to be enough hours in day. My time get diverted to working, sleeping, eating, shopping for groceries, laundry, and the occasional Youtube and Facebook break. Admittedly I should cut out Youtube and Facebook to gain more time, perhaps by deactivating my WiFi as I used to do when I was in school, but unfortunately what I am trying to learn is also only available with WiFi on. I will need to figure out a way to focus my time an energy away from the distractions, or find a way to get the material I need to learn offline. One more step in learning to succeed.
Wednesday, August 24, 2016
Portland: The Land of No Sales Tax and Gluten Free
Aug 24, 2016
Self Growth
Portland is a unique mix of hippie and hipster and the lines often blur as to what is what. The roadways are not the friendliest often with one-ways and bicyclist and bus only lanes at every turn. My driving experience in Portland was terrible but Portland does have some redeeming qualities. The food is good, the landscape is scenic, and the Saturday and Sunday market is huge.
Food is huge in Portland. You can find just about every cuisine you would care to enjoy and you will likely be able to find it gluten free. You can find gluten free pasta, bread, and even cake. I seriously have not seen so many gluten free options in my life. I took the opportunity to check out as many happy hours as I could. I typically favor food happy hours over drinks. RingSide Fish House had one of my favorite happy hours which has mussels, chicken wings, and fish cakes; all of which were delicious. The service was top notch as well. Portland City Grill had a really nice view of the city just overlooking the river. The food here is subpar so I would only go here for the view and a couple drinks. Also, get here early as the good seating by the window fills up quickly. Finally Portland Seafood Company was a quaint little spot, the food and drinks were typical of bar food. It was not bad, but not exceptional either. And if you are interested in that gluten free cake, you can swing by Petunia's, a 50's style baker shop, that has a whole host of gluten free products.


Portland has some of the nicest scenery and you can really stop to smell the roses. The rose garden here was in full bloom with nearly 10,000 roses of every variety. The entry is free and you just have to pay for parking which at the time I went was $1.60 an hour. If you pay by phone, you are able to add time, so you can pay for 1 hour, then add if you end up spending more time in the area. The zoo and the Japanese Garden are also within walking distance and you can enter for a fee. Beyond the rose garden is The Grotto, a religious park of sorts. It is dedicated to the Catholic faith and the Virgin Mary. I am not religious myself, but I still found The Grotto to be tranquil and relaxing. On my 3rd day in Portland, I attempted to visit Multnomah Falls. Unfortunately, everyone else in Portland must have had the same idea because the traffic going to the falls was terrible. As such, I was only able to drive past the falls and admire it through the windows of the car. However, the day was not lost because just a little beyond Multnomah Falls was Horsetails Falls. You are able to park right next to Horsetails and walk underneath the falls, giving you the best picture and experience for the time and energy invested. And going even further beyond Horsetails Falls, we reached The Hatchery located off the Columbia River. The Hatchery is in a secluded area, a complete contrast to what was happening at Multnomah falls.
You cannot visit Portland without visiting their weekend markets. There are several throughout the week but the biggest ones are on Saturday and Sunday located near the water. You will find fun trinkets, wood workings, glass sculpting, and food truck. The event is so big, that it actually forms 2 separate market events, spanning roughly 4 blocks.
Unfortunately I was not able to make very good use of the no-sales tax benefit of shopping in Portland. I did pick up some much needed socks, but that was about it. For me I really did not need anything, and spending money just because there was no sales taxes did not make financial sense.
Sunday, August 21, 2016
Self Reflection Sunday
Aug 21, 2016
I have spent the last week on vacation in Washington state and Oregon. I loved my time spent away, savoring the food and taking in the scene. I have some great pictures and memories of the sites we visited. But most of all I really had a great time catching up with friends. I met up with 2 friends in Seattle, one I have known since middle school and the other from grad school. It was great to be involved in each others lives again after it felt as we drifted apart with the passing days and months. We talked about our careers and plans. We talked money and mortgages and scared ourselves about how much like "adults" we were trying to be. It truly is the people in your life that makes life special and I am very grateful to my wife for helping make my dream of traveling come true. I have also found out that after being away for a week, that I am starting to miss home. I miss my bed and even my good old 2005 Honda, these rental cars just aren't the same.
I have been slacking on putting up new blog posts. I have started writing them to talk about my travels but they started running long. Also since my phone is too old to take proper pictures, I will have to wait until I get home to pull the pictures of the point and shoot camera before I can share them.
Thursday, August 18, 2016
Sleepless in Seattle
Aug 23, 2016
Self Growth
Seattle is such an amazing city, with a vibrant culture and a great mix of technology and nature. I was fortunate enough to spend a few unforgettable days in Seattle (and a few nearby locales) and this was what I discovered.
Seattle is full of art everywhere. According to a fun fact that was obtain during a Duck Boat tour around the city, 1% of all property tax is used towards public art. As a result there are fun random art pieces scattered about the city. There is the metallic tree at Olympic sculpture park, the Fremont Troll that lives under the bridge waiting for the three Billy goats gruff, and the glass workings in Chihuly Gardens. Of course these are big sites but you will see quite a few interesting pieces all throughout the city with unfamiliar names.
Seattle is full of interesting architecture. I had the
chance to check out the 10 stories that formed the Seattle Public
Library. Each floor had its own function, whether it was the cafe or
reading room or job resource center. The entire building is covered in
windows allowing in the maximum amount of natural light without being
overwhelming. The interior often showcased the art that the city is
known for. Located in the heart of the city is the iconic Space Needle
which overlooks both the Chihuly Garden and EMP. Chihuly Garden features
a number of glass sculptures big and small. They range from the size of
a small hand basket to a 12 foot tower. All the pieces are full of
vibrant colors and interesting shapes. It offers some great photo
opportunities like having glass sculptures and the space needle all in
one shot. The EMP building showcases a number of rock legends. The
building is easily recognizable and not recognizable. You know you are
there because you will be standing at a bright red building with a
number of twists and turns. If you are not familiar with it, you may not
be able to recognized it was designed based on Jimmy Hendrix's broken
guitar. These are a few of the architectural styles you can see while in
Seattle but there is more to come. Amazon for example has a new
building under construction, which looks like a golf ball. It's unique
design will definitely help their creative team think different. Seattle was an amazing experience which we were fortunate enough experience. It is so full of great art and food and we cannot get enough. We also benefited from not having rain while we were there which from my understanding is unheard of.
Monday, August 15, 2016
Self Reflection Sunday
Self Reflection
This past week I was able to write 6 of 7 days, with 2 financial articles, 1 on personal safety, 1 about Pokemon (which should be a category all on it's own), and updates on the website design. This week was also one where I had multiple friends and family visit from out of town which was wonderful to for catching up and going out, but also took time away from working this blog. I have no regrets on spending that time with them, but it does challenge me on how I can be productive when there are other priorities available. I have learned to blog from my phone, which is great for when I have a few spare minutes when I am on the go. This means I can keep working even when I am not home. This coming week will be full of meeting up with friends and exploring out of state. I have always wanted to travel, so I am taking advantage of this time while I am still young to make it happen. I will take a hit on my budget but time lost is time I will never get back. I am saving a little on hotel costs by staying with friends for half the time and Airbnb for the other half. Goal for this coming week is plenty of pictures for the photo album and a handful of blog posts.


